A Step-by-Step Guidebook with Word-for-Word Scripts to Tell Your Kids About Divorce with Confidence, Compassion, and Clarity. 

This isn't a book of vague theories. It is a practical, actionable playbook designed by me -  CDC Certified Divorce Coach® who has personally walked this path and guided hundreds of families through it. It is the resource I wish I’d had.

This guide will take you from a place of anxiety and uncertainty to a feeling of calm, confident preparedness.

Inside Your Guidebook, You Will Discover:

• The Complete Step-by-Step Plan: Learn exactly how to set the stage, when to have the talk, and how to create an environment of emotional safety for your kids.

• The Word-for-Word Scripting Vault: Get my proven, age-appropriate scripts for toddlers, elementary-aged kids, tweens, and teens. No more guessing what to say.

• The 5 Most Common Mistakes (And How to Avoid Them): I'll show you the hidden landmines that most parents step on and how you can easily sidestep them to prevent confusion and hurt.

• "Tough Questions" Answer Guide: Feel prepared to answer the questions you're dreading, like "Is this my fault?" or "Do you still love each other?" with grace and honesty.

• A Road Map for High-Conflict Situations: Get specific strategies for handling the conversation when your co-parent is uncooperative, narcissistic, or antagonistic.

 This Guidebook is for You If:

• You are considering separation and don't know where to start.

• You feel paralyzed by the fear of saying the wrong thing.

• You and your co-parent are not on the same page as your partner and you need a clear plan.

• You want to ensure your children feel safe, loved, and secure through this transition.

• You need a practical, actionable plan, not just abstract advice.

A Note From Your Guide, Heidi

I created this guide to be the resource I desperately needed when I had to tell my own two young children about my divorce. I remember the paralyzing fear of saying the wrong thing and the lonely search for a practical, step-by-step plan.

That experience became my mission.

As a CDC Certified Divorce Coach® and a High-Conflict Communications Specialist, I have now guided hundreds of parents through this exact conversation. I combine my professional, field-tested strategies with the deep empathy of a mother who has been in your shoes. My goal is to take the fear out of this process and replace it with a sense of confidence, clarity, and control, ensuring you and your children can move forward with hope.